9 Myths About Debt That Are Costing You Thousands

Because most of what you’ve been taught about “good debt” and “bad debt” came from the people who profit from it.

1. “My Mortgage Is the Cheapest Money I’ll Ever Borrow.”

It’s the most expensive — just stretched over the longest timeline. Even at a low rate, you’ll pay back two to three times what you borrowed. Cheap interest isn’t the same as cheap money because time compounds profit for the bank, not for you.

2. “All Interest Is Created Equal.”

A 6% car loan doesn’t cost the same as a 6% mortgage or credit card. Each product calculates interest differently. Comparing them by rate alone is like comparing miles to minutes — it doesn’t tell the whole story.

3. “It’s Smart to Refinance When Rates Drop.”

A refinance can make sense, but most people trade a short-term win for a long-term loss. Lowering your rate by 1% doesn’t help if you add 10 years to your clock. You didn’t beat the bank — you gave them more time to win.

4. “Extra Payments Will Always Help Me.”

Not always. If your timing is off, extra payments can sit in an escrow account, doing nothing for months. Banks take your money in precise amounts, and anything beyond that can earn them more profit before it even touches your balance.

5. “I Just Need a Better Budget.”

Budgets are great for awareness, not acceleration. They tell you where your money goes, not how to make it move faster. You need structure, timing, and flow — not just categories.

6. “Debt Snowball and Avalanche Are the Best Methods.”

They’re motivational tools, not mathematical solutions. Paying off the smallest balance or highest rate helps psychologically, but it’s not the fastest way to eliminate debt. If you want the fastest route, you need a dynamic plan that adapts as your situation changes.

7. “You Have to Choose Between Paying Off Debt or Building Wealth.”

This is one of the system’s biggest lies. Banks want you to believe you can only do one because they profit from both sides of the equation. The truth is you can do both, with the same dollar, when you understand how to structure your flow.

8. “I’ll Be Fine If I Just Make the Minimum.”

The minimum isn’t a safety net — it’s a trap. It’s designed to keep you paying interest forever. If you only pay the minimum on a $10,000 credit card at 24%, it could take 28 years and cost more than $30,000 total.

9. “Debt Is Just a Part of Life.”

Debt isn’t a rite of passage — it’s a product. It exists because it’s profitable. When you start seeing debt as a product sold to you, not as something you need, you finally take back control.

The Financial Minimalist Plan

At Financial Minimalist, we teach Tacoma families to question everything they’ve been told about money because most of it was designed to keep them paying longer. You don’t need more income. You don’t need to just work harder. You need structure that makes your money work twice — once to eliminate debt and again to build wealth.


“When you learn how the system profits from time, you can start profiting from it instead.”

Key Takeaways

  • The bank’s rules are designed to keep you paying, not progressing.
  • Time, not interest, is what makes debt expensive.
  • You can build wealth and eliminate debt simultaneously.
  • Static plans fail — dynamic flow wins.
  • Financial freedom isn’t about less spending; it’s about smarter structure.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can I really eliminate debt and build wealth at the same time?

    Yes. Once your flow is structured properly, the same dollar can serve both purposes — reducing debt and growing savings.

  • What’s wrong with refinancing to get a lower payment?

    It extends your timeline, increasing total interest. The key isn’t lower payments — it’s shorter payoff.

  • How do I know if I’m paying too much interest?

    If you don’t know your total interest volume, not just your rate, you’re probably overpaying. Most Tacoma families are.

  • Is this realistic in Tacoma’s cost-of-living environment?

    Absolutely. We help local families save hundreds of thousands in interest and reach freedom in 7–10 years, even without new income.

Final Thought

You’ve been following their rules long enough. It’s time to write your own. Debt isn’t the cost of living — it’s the cost of following a system that wasn’t built for your freedom.

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